I love heels. Yes I said it. I love them. I do not love the way some of them hurt my feet though. Of course there are different ones that do or do not make my feet hurt quickly but eventually I end up walking too much on them and it will be a relief to take them off. So yes it takes some planning on my behalf if I know I am going to be walking a lot, I’ll bring a pair of flats. And sometimes my impulsivity gets me end up with glass in my foot because I had to take them off and I’ll just walk home barefoot.
But let’s discuss the more obvious one for me. Being tall and wearing heels. Yes, I know I am tall with my 6’1/1.85 and yes I will be even taller. My porn heels will make me tower over people and yes it does make me feel too tall sometimes. But fuck, why shouldn’t I wear heels just because I am already tall? When I’m wearing heels I do get it asked a lot. Why do you wear heels when you obviously are tall as fuck? I generally tend to answer with; why not?
And yes they usually answer with because you are already tall. Which really is a bullshit way of saying ‘I already envy your height so you can’t artificially alter it any more to he even taller than I am’.
It might not been said but the message sometimes is quite clear. And to be honest, I don’t give a fuck about what others might think, and so should you. No matter what gender you identify as, no matter how you look, no matter how tall you are, if you love wearing heels, just wear them!