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1. Do you think that acting out a fantasy can sometimes cause damage to a relationship?

In my opinion, it can only get better! As long as you still have something to fantasize about because if you did it all, what would there be left?

2. Some couples role play their fantasies rather than introducing another person into the relationship to live out their fantasies. Do you think that this is an acceptable substitute?

Did you read this blog? Yeah? No? Well let me tell you that I find either fun.
Role play? Hell yeah! Another person? Yes please!

3. Is there a particular movie or TV series or character from a movie or TV series that you fantasize about?

Oooh wel I have quite a few, one of my favorites is this guy though:

As you might have thought, I have a total soft spot for geeks and nerds!
And among those is Matthew Gray Gubler, if you don’t know him, you should, he’s awesome!

4. Apart from the obvious things like child abuse, are there some things that are ‘off limits’ for a fantasy e.g. incest fantasies, age play, rape fantasies. Why/ why not?

Well I’d say with fantasies the sky is the limit, but of course things that aren’t legal and socially unacceptable like child molesting is certainly out of the picture for me.
But age play, rape fantasies, as long as they are fantasies…. or with consent 😉

5. What is the most taboo thing you have ever fantasized about doing?

*thinks* Mmmm this is an interesting one, I most certainly have to say kidnapping and rape are at the top there. But of course with consent, not actual kidnapping or rape. Wouldn’t want you lot to get the wrong ideas of course 😉
But the real question is of course then, who would be the kidnapper and who would be kidnapped? I will let you guys think about that one on your own!

6. Tell us about a fantasy that you have that you don’t ever see yourself actually acting out. Why do you think you will never act it out?

*points to the answer above* Ooh I’m a shy person, did I mention that. And less kinky then people seem to think! I’m pretty boring actually, no really! *looks very innocent*

7. Have you ever pretended the person you were having sex with was someone else without telling them?

Trust me I tried, having an ADD brain doesn’t make that one easy though! Concentrating is already hard as it is!

8. Have you ever tried to make a fantasy a reality only to have it fail miserably? What happened?

Not that I can think off, I’ll just mention laughing attacks while having sex instead.
Total mood killer, especially if you can’t stop laughing!

Bonus: Tell us about your most cherished fantasy. Did you ever live it out? Please give us all the juicy details because that is the kind of people we are.

Oh this is an interesting one..
Well I did share some fantasies before here like The desk and What if?I’ve got a dirty mind, and a lot of fantasies…..maybe you’re in it next?

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