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Review: She Makes The Rules

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When I heard about She Makes The Rules (SMTH) and that it was all about Female Led Relationships (FLR) I was really curious about reading it because it is something that interests me greatly.

When I first saw the index of what was contained in this book, I already got excited. Lots of fun things and lots of information, my favorite! The writing style is also very fun and it is good to read.

I had lots of giggles on numerous occasions and if you take your time reading all the footnotes you will definitely find some funny things in there.

The set up of the book is quite simple but very informative. It is both good for people who don’t know much about the subject, and those already more knowledgeable.

The book treats the different kinds of FLR there are and debunks some myths about them along the way. There is quite a bit of information you can use to make a existing relationship work better or to carefully start one.

Everything is written very clearly and it is very good to read. One of the things that is very recognizable is are the unofficial FLR relationships. FLR is everywhere, even when you might not realize it. Who knows, you might be in one and not have realized it!

Regarding a lot of topics and for me already basic things I agree with Nookie. For instance about how important trust and communication are. These are for me very logical things but might not be as self explanatory if you are just starting out.

Reading it definitely gave me some new insights, tips, tools and handles on how I would like to have a FLR. Very recommendable for beginners to the subject but also for those who are not so new anymore. There are plenty of different things you can pick up or who knows, you might get some good inspiration for naughty, naughty things. I know I did. 😉

You can go over to Nookie her site and have a look yourself what kind of interesting things topics will be discussed, enjoy!

Sinful Sunday: Strap-on fun

This Sinful Sunday I’m sharing something I love having fun with. Strap-ons. Just only to walk around with them is a lot of fun. But having naughty fun with them is even more fun!

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Sinful Sunday: The Botanic Garden

This Sinful Sunday I’m sharing a fun Scavenger Hunt picture I recently made while away on a trip. I was in luck with the weather for it not being totally sucky and decided to explore the botanic garden on my own. And of course, as a real scavenger, I managed to pull some pictures off. Lucky for me I have long arms!

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Also this is an entry for my personal scavenge hunt (a sexy one that is)
You can find more about that on Dee her site

TMI: Let’s get serious

  1. What are you most afraid of?

This is a tricky one. I’m generally pretty fearless but I’d have to go with my own mind. I daily battle my own mind to stay positive and keep going. Especially structuring my time when at home, is hard.

  1. Do you believe in life after death?

Not really. It could be amusing though if there was something, especially being a ghost I could have fun.

  1. What is your purpose?

I wish I knew. This pretty much changes a lot. There are a lot of things I would love to do, see and experience. What I want in life is do something I enjoy and love. Besides that I’m always happy to help people. The best purpose I can think of for myself; to be grand.

  1. Where are you going?

I have no idea. That is both scary and thrilling to think about. After all, life happens while you’re busy planning it. As long I have the determination to keep going I will see where life takes me.

  1. Do you fear hell? Why or why not?

Nope, depending on how strict the rules are, that’s where the fun people are at. Besides, my kind of hell is one that I’ve been to; music festivals. Once and never again, definitely the way to make me go crazy.

  1. Do you feel free?

Sometimes. I am lucky to have parents who support me and have the ability to get me through rough times. I know I can do whatever I want but finding what makes me happy and doesn’t bore me is more difficult for me.

Bonus: Why do people point to their wrist when asking for the time, but people don’t point to their crotch when asking where is the bathroom?

Definitely a good one, I totally want to do this now. Admit it, you know you want to now as well. I definitely did the ‘omg I have to pee soo bad I can’t stand normally with my hands in my crotch’ but I haven’t asked for a bathroom like that. Would sound like something I would do.

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Sinful Sunday: Spend

This Sinful Sunday I’m sharing some of deliciousness that is my bf.

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Sinful Sunday: Bad Ass

This Sinful Sunday I’m being bad ass. Cause I am 😉

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