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Kink of the week: Back into femdom!

By On November 15, 2018 In Experiences, Kink of the Week With 2 Comments Permanent Link to Kink of the week: Back into femdom!Permalink

When I saw that the kink of the week was femdom, I just had to join in. As a woman that loves to be dominant, I like femdom. As a switch, I’ve never been on the receiving side though of femdom. Maybe just because I don’t get women as good as I get men. Women can be scary. Trust me. I know I can be.

I have been out of the femdom stuff for a while and out of kink. But recently I had my kink jump started when I found a new lover. Even though I been wanting to explore more on the submissive side, he triggered my dominant side. I just had to have him. And so it started. He was still very new so I took it slow and I still am taking it slow.

For me, femdom is about the connection you have with someone. Sure I can a sadistic bitch with hitting a person I don’t have a good connection with, but it’s not the same as having someone trust you completely. The better the connection, the more satisfying is the relationship. The connection I’m having with my new lover makes it even better. I even dare to say I’m in love.

That love is what makes play even more intense. The first time making out with some heavy petting, I just looked him in the eyes and it was just very intense. We were both in the flow and it connected very naturally.

I take pride in keeping that trust safe. The biggest compliment I can get, are the words ‘I trust you.’ To see someone shed their fears and surrender to you, is very satisfying. Not to mention fucking hot. Oh yes, it’s very hot to have the control over someone. Especially if it’s a cute sub I can proudly call my own. For me, femdom definitely is linked to sex as well. I love the mix of sex and kink with everything but there’s something special about sex when you’re the one in charge. Something about those pleading eyes looking up to you, begging to be taken. Begging you to make them your own.

Besides the connection with someone, I like to keep my play light and not too serious. Plus I like to mess with people and the way they perceive me. I’ve done it plenty that I had the most cute and adorable schoolgirl outfit on, while at a party. And I just messed people up by hurting someone while dressed like that. Looks can be quite deceiving. Nothing like looking cute and cuddly while wielding a carpet beater of mini cricket bat.

 

10 things for Eroticon

By On March 23, 2018 In Eroticon, Experiences With 1 Comment Permanent Link to 10 things for EroticonPermalink

First of all I want to say that I cannot thank the sponsors of Eroticon enough! Without them I would not have been able to make it.

1. Having almost no voice throughout the whole thing has not stopped me from talking to all the lovely people that were preset and I am very great-full to catch up with old friends and make new ones. The Eroticon crowd is one of warmth and people being kind to each other. So many thanks to Molly, Micheal and Girlonthenet for organizing it and doing such an awesome job!

2. In case you haven’t noticed on my Twitter thing. I think I talked myself into doing a Tinder experiment, not only in London but thanks to lukeandjack I just have to widen the experiment to different cities…  you know, for science! More to come soon about shag for science!

3. My blog definitely needs an tech update. It’s a miracle I didn’t break it yet.

4. Even though life seems to be getting into the way a lot, not to mention the squirrels. I do want to post more often and build up a habit of posting/writing. It may not be as often and consistent as others but I’m trying to not compare myself with awesome other people.

5. Even with packing light, I still need to pack it lighter so I do not have to do my special Tetris trick with my suitcase and bag. Also, if you’re coming for the first time and you’re flying, make sure you keep enough room for the awesome goodies that is provided by the sponsors!

6. I still am not a fan of latex but the vacuum cube of mac was quite fun. It even gave me a long hickey (first thought it was from the wax-play with sparks) and a bruise on my ass but it definitely was fun. The only sucky part, or more un sucky part, was when the air was pumped back in and it unstuck from my skin. Worst. Feeling. Ever.

7. I really should not forget to eat and have more rest. My rhythm always is fucked up beyond all recognition when I am in London. So note to self for next time: stay in Camden again. Traveling is exhausting.

8. If you read my meet and greet post, you might wonder what was the lie in my line up. The lie was that I love fucking more than cuddling. I do tend to love cuddling more. Sure, fucking is nice but curling up on someone their lap is just <3

9. Cat ears are awesome and are taking over the world!

10. Did I mention yet I am very grateful to be in London again surrounded by awesome people? Special shout out for @vic for offering a place to sleep and @alethea for offering me a place to sleep as well so I could have a few hours more sleep without having to travel back and forth. <3
Also a special shout out for my blog mum Marie, who inspires me and send me to bed when I was on the verge of completely breaking down.

Eroticon 2018 Meet and Greet

By On March 8, 2018 In Eroticon With 5 Comments Permanent Link to Eroticon 2018 Meet and GreetPermalink

First of all I would like to say that I am VERY happy to be able to go to Eroticon again this year. Many, many, many thanks to the sponsors for the ticketpool!
NAME (and Twitter if you have one)
Rose Monrou, I’m on Twitter as @SexwithRose

 
What are you most looking forward to about Eroticon 2018?
Meeting all the lovely people I know already and meeting new ones. As usual I have no fucking clue yet who will be there but I did have a look at the program already. But I do know it will be fucking fabulous to say hi and hug all the lovely people.

 
We are creating a play list of songs for the Friday Night Meet and Greet. Nominate one song that you would like us to add to the play list and tell us why you picked that song.
I wanna do bad things to you by Jace Everett <3
One of my favorite things songs for mischief and seems like a fitting song for Eroticon!

 
What’s the first career you dreamed of having as a kid?
Well no surprise but I actually dreamed of being a writer. Recently I found some old scribbles I have saved full of stuff I wrote. Including a whole bunch of notebooks with erotic stuff. My view on sex while I had no experience yet was quite endearing to say the least.

 
Weirdest place you’ve ever gotten up to mischief (define ‘mischief’ however you like…)
Well mischief I have done but the weirdest place…. hmmm. Public nudity mischief a ferry, a ski-lift, that kinda stuff. But sex mischief my most weirdest places are a sauna, both steam bath and regular one, and on the hood of a car was most exciting as well.

 
Tell us two truths and a lie about yourself.
I am an attention slut but only when I want to.
I have a letter from Alan Rickman.
I love fucking more than I love cuddling.

 

Complete the sentence: I want..
To build a snowman… I regret nothing, and you’re welcome!

Wicked Wednesday: Beginning

By On January 3, 2018 In Experiences, Wicked Wednesday, Writing With 5 Comments Permanent Link to Wicked Wednesday: BeginningPermalink

Sitting on your couch I was wondering how it quickly it all happened. Here I was sitting on the couch of someone I met at a kinky party a week ago and only talked to in person for about 15/20 minutes. I send a message and we got talking, wanting to go to the same party next week and you offered me a ride and a place to sleep as I needed to be in the neighborhood during the day anyway. We agreed that with or without sexy stuff happening, will be fun either way. And there I was, sitting on your couch and chatting. Who knows where this might lead to, a beginning to something new? I kept sitting a little closer to you and at some point you just went for it.

Softly you grabbed my chin and leaned in for a kiss. I gladly returned the kiss and smiled as we broke it off and looked at each other. Everything about it felt right and comfortable and I felt myself melt a little in your arms. While teasing me you slowly started to undress me. You softly guided me towards the coffee table and had me kneel on top of it.

“Bend over.”

I slowly bend over and leaned on the edge of the table with my hands. I felt your hands on my back, slowly drifting towards my ass and between my legs. I felt how wet I was as your fingers slid over my pussy.
I started squirming and shake a little as you softly caressed my clitoris and suddenly you slapped me on my ass.

“Keep still.”
“I can’t help it, my body does that on it’s own!”
“Well I’m sure you can keep more still at least.”

I stopped squirming and involuntarily shook as he touched my clitoris again.

“That’s better, good girl”

How I loved hearing those words, I could feel myself getting even wetter and hornier for you. From the moment we kissed I already was horny as fuck. And it was only getting worse. Suddenly you thrust two fingers deep in me and I moaned.

“Well you’re quite the horny little slut, now are we?”
“Yes.”
“Yes what?”
I pushed myself back on your fingers and softly said: “Yes Sir.”
“And what do you want?”
“I want to be fucked and feel you inside me.”
He bend over with his head next to my ear and as he kept slowly sliding his fingers in and out of me he softly said: “Mmm shame, sluts who ask for it only have to wait longer. So I’m not going to fuck you just yet.” I softly whimpered and bit my lip.

He suddenly started thrusting faster and harder and getting me off guard I moaned hard. He kept going and I loved how it felt. Sitting exposed on the table with him still fully dressed. Someone I barely had spoken to in person already had this kind of control over me.
“What do you want?”
“Anything you want” I said, hoping it was the right answer.
“Well that’s a good start at least, how about giving your mouth something to do?” he said as he withdrew his fingers and walked around the table.
“Open your mouth.”
I opened my mouth and he slowly put in his fingers in my mouth. I tasted my own juices as I started to lick and suck them off.
“That’s a good girl, now open my pants if you want more.”

I reached up with one hand and started to undo his pants as he still was making me suck his fingers. Soon I had my other hand helping as well as I quickly undid his pants and I saw how hard he was. His erection sprung free as I lowered his boxer and I put my hands back on the table again.

“Good girl” he said as he withdrew his fingers from my mouth, leaving it empty and wanting to be filled again. He slowly caressed my hair and suddenly he grabbed it. I gasped and as I opened my mouth in a moan he thrust in his cock.
“Be a good little slut and suck it good for me.”
I started sucking it as good as I could and I felt hit having effect on him. And on me.
I felt myself getting even wetter and hornier. Wanting to feel him in me even more. He softly guided my head with his hand as I sucked and licked him.
I looked up at him with his cock in my mouth and at that moment he pulled my head of his cock.

“Mmm very good, you should get dressed again now. We wouldn’t want to be too late to the party.”

I groaned softly as I got up from the table and kissed him. I got the feeling this was only the beginning of something fun.

 

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Kink of the week: Anal!

By On January 2, 2018 In Experiences, Kink of the Week, Writing With 7 Comments Permanent Link to Kink of the week: Anal!Permalink

So, anal sex. Let’s talk about that. For me, anal is something that I don’t mind (secretly love sometimes even, shhhh) but it can be a hassle sometimes. For it to be comfortable it needs some stretching up and warming up but I can imagine that’s the case for most people. But it’s hot when it’s done right. For instance when your play partner has you insert a plug in you and proceeds to fuck you while you have it in. As someone with a double penetration fantasy that she still wants to experience at least once, that is hot as fuck.

Very hot as fuck actually, especially with some kink and restraints involved. Or just two guys that hold you in to place as they…. But I digress. Ahum, let’s see where was I?

Ah yes anal, sometimes I also include it with masturbating but usually only when I have a play partner who also loves it that I do that. Sometimes even with a dildo along with it. Okay I see a pattern here now. With my masturbating, I usually read my porn and anal often is also a part of it. I’m a fan of non-consent writing and for me it can also be something that is more degrading. For me that’s more something in the category of a fucktoy with all holes being used kind of thing.

But as a switch and owner of a strapon harnass and a bigass dildo that somehow ended up being called Henk, I also have an interest for pegging. Not as much as I used to anymore but it’s still there… somewhere. Currently I’m just more greedy and want to experience things myself while being the willing subject. But I do love walking around with Henk. And get into cockfights or just whooosh it around. Yes, I definitely have cock envy there and to take someone with a cock feels like a very powerful thing to do. And it is quite pleasing. And also making me horny as fuck in general. First time I pegged someone I forgot to wear panties and had my juices halfway down my leg. Yeah I was just as surprised.

So yes, I do like it, don’t mind it but it’s also perfectly okay to not have it included in sex or masturbation.

 

Review: The Ruby Glow

By On May 23, 2017 In Reviews With No Comments Permanent Link to Review: The Ruby GlowPermalink

Thanks to the lovely people of TheRocksOff and thanks to the lovely Tabitha Rayne, I was able to review the Ruby Glow.

At Eroticon I already had a quick peek at the Ruby Glow and it had made me quite curious about it. Because for me, clitoral stimulation is the way to go for orgasms. So this definitely seemed like the toy to try out. I’m not the easiest when it comes to orgasms so one more potential way seemed like a good idea.

So taking it out of the box, I immediately tried it on and tried pushing buttons at random. There are two buttons on there, one for every separate motor that is in there. Of course just randomly pushing buttons, you might end up making music with the Ruby Glow. It can do a march quite handsomely. So yes the Ruby Glow definitely has rhythm. So with the two separate motors, you can decide what you want while sitting on it.

First step: Trying to figure out how to sit on it. Because you know, for science, I of course tried it the way it isn’t intended for as well. As well with and without a pillow under it. And of course with a hard chair and a soft one. Because, of course,  I need to test it properly under all circumstances. You know… for science! Also still works as a regular toy laying down or standing up, it’s just more of a hassle because you have to hold it. And in my opinion, it’s better with a hard surface underneath you. That way, if you get the right position and spot, it’s not instantly gone if you move.

Playing with the various settings, and with lots of shifting back and forth on it. It definitely works for me in terms of it actually is arousing and hitting the right spots. It does take some practice and some trying out with all the different settings what works for you. Personally I found the clitoris stimulation part a bit hard and I couldn’t find a good spot for it to work for me. The other part I found quite nice and stimulating. Especially just sitting with that part between my legs did the trick for getting enough stimuli.

A few of the patterns cracked me up though, one sounds exactly like your phone going off while on silent with vibration on. I managed to get a tango out of it. Almost got something like it sounding like it’s saying help. So yes, it has some interesting features and rhythms to work with, both along with a continuous vibration and a steady flow of vibrations.

The controls are quite easy to handle with only two buttons. You just have to keep clicking to rotate the pattern and if you want to shut it off, just press and hold the button for a bit. A good feature is that, because of the two separate motors, you can also just only use one of them.

The vibration was also more intense and harder than I would expect and certainly sufficient for proper stimulation. The material was also softer and more smooth than I expected. It does have a funny smell when it comes out of the box, but that’s not uncommon with new toys.

I personally prefer using clitoral toys with at least one layer of clothing, because it can get quite intense and sensitive with direct contact. The vibrations of the Ruby Glow are strong enough to make up for that extra layer and it feels quite nice as well. Because of the smoothness, you can easily slide back and forth on it while not getting friction.

For me, it didn’t do the trick though. It was nice but for me the clitoral part was too rigid and hard. I do like that the fact you have to sit on it and if you do, it’s quite comfortable. And yes obviously, part of this review is written while actually sitting on it. It does make a nice distraction or motivator. It’s all good vibrations!

So in short:

  • Good, good vibrations! The two separate motors are easy to match.
  • Body safe silicone, easy to clean and splash safe.
  • Well designed and long battery life (takes two AAA batteries)
  • Sitting on it and hitting the right place takes some practice
  • Some movements may feel uncomfortable and hard while sitting on it if you shift or flinch a little when it hits the right spot.
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