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Wicked Wednesday: First session

He had send me a lovely message on Fetlife and being a sucker for long messages and care for attention (not to mention a person that actually shows in his message that he has read my profile) we started talking. He explained that he was looking for someone in the area to keep him ‘busy’ while away from his girlfriend. Of course this came with certain limitations but I saw no problems in that.
After meeting him in a cafe in person, we both thought it clicked quite good and even despite the limitations he had with what he could offer, I would certainly consider it interesting and fun to play with him.

Getting back to his place, we just talked a bit about things before we got to the spanking part. I showed him what I had brought along and was about to do to him.
I had brought my love bites gloves with the little spikes, my carpet beater, a blindfold and some other minor things. He at that point told me he had a surprise for me and I closed my eyes.
As I opened them, he had placed a crop in my hands. Definitely a good thing he thought of it, because I didn’t have that much to hit him with.

He changed into his briefs and he knelt before me as I sat comfortably on the sofa.
I told him to kiss my feet and he eagerly started kissing them. As he finished, he kept his eyes lowered and resumed his position again. I walked around him and teased him with the crop on his back. After a few strokes I told him to lean over the couch so I would have a better target and better access. He wasn’t familiar with the gloves yet so I also brought those out to play.

First I gave him a taste of the carpet beater, for being cheeky a couple of times. Cheeky is certainly something I will remember, especially if I later will have the opportunity to be in control of the other person. Sometimes I will react to cheekiness straight away and sometimes I will save it for later punishment. After the first strike, he said to me that the carpet beater was an evil vicious thing. Obviously that made me chuckle because I already knew that. Of course it is evil, that is why I love it. After giving plenty of strokes, I put on one of the love bites gloves. I started to trace my and up and down his back. Getting to his sides, he flinched and mad amusing sounds…. it seemed I found his ticklish spot.

‘I can’t believe you found my weak spot so quickly.’

I grinned and replied ‘Well that’s what I’m good at.’

‘Hold still’ I ordered him as I slowly scratched his sides. Despite his best efforts to hold still, he flinched.

*Whack*

‘Ouch.’

‘That will happen again if you don’t hold still.’

‘I am trying really hard Miss, it tickles.’

‘I know’ I said as I grinned and moved to his other side. I kept repeating this and he eventually managed to hold quite still as I teased his sides with the glove.

‘Good boy’ I told him as I reversed my palm and stroked his back with the soft side of the gloves. After a little more spanking, I decided to give him the mercy he was begging for and stopped.

Next I demanded the massage he promised and I was looking forward to before. I blindfolded so he couldn’t see and I stripped down to my panties and laid down for my pampering. It was nice to be in capable hands while chatting and relaxing. After being pampered, we returned to the couch, I got dressed and he knelt in front of me again. I let him put his head on my lap as I warmed up from being almost naked. At some point he ended up over my knee, face down. I gave him another spanking with my hand and also let him experience that he had more ticklish spots than he thought. I really love the noises of someone responding to being tickled, very, very amusing.

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Wicked Wednesday: Such a tease

Meeting him I knew he was all locked up for me and while we were in the car I let my hands wander to his crotch. Feeling the hard shell of his cage I started to tease him. Stroking his balls, softly and alternating with hard gropes. Looking at his face I can see him react and I grin.

After a drive with a lot of teasing we arrive at the movie festival and quickly make our way into the theatre. Sitting in the back on the end of the row I quickly start my teasing again when the movie starts. Making him gasp from my sudden touches I grin as he looks at me.

Getting back to his place, we soon make our way to the bed. He shows me some of his toys and of course I bring out mine. We undress each other and I tie him up to the bed and blindfold him. He has his cage still on so I start teasing him… a lot. Straddling him I grind myself against him, letting him hear and feel how wet I was. I stroke his balls and bite his nipples…  At this point his cage got very, very tight. Especially after licking his balls he was groaning with frustration.

I uncaged him  and his cock instantly grew from being released. I gave a few tender kisses and licks on this cock before continuing teasing him.

Getting myself a glass of water I teased him by dripping some cold drops on his body. Him flinching with every drop. I took some in my mouth and swallowed it right before taking his cock in my mouth. He gasped and after repeating the teasing a few times I laid down next to him. Softly stroking him I brought out the Love Bites gloves. Not seeing them come, he gasped at my first touch, sucking in air while squirming under my touch. Not being able to move much he strains in the restraints, trying to get away. Sucking on his nipples and using the gloves to tease his body. After teasing him for a while I laid down next to him and took off his blindfold. Just stroking his body I asked him if he wanted to be set free. Of course he wanted to be released, so I decide to tease him even more by giving him the keys to the locks on his wrist restraints. He was very confident that he could open them while restrained. Gravity however proved him wrong as he got the key in the lock but couldn’t turn it without the key falling out. Gravity is a true bitch. Don’t worry though, I did let him out…. eventually 😉

 

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TMI: Just asking…

1. What’s your dirtiest secret?
I’m an attention slut, yes really. Otherwise I have no idea what my dirty secret could be… maybe you guys and girls?

2. What’s the sweetest thing you have done for someone?
I’m always sweet but I do give gifts to people because it made me think of them.

3. What’s your favorite foreplay act to give? Receive?
I love to tease and be teased, in any way…

4. State five (5) facts about your body.

I have very, very, very long legs.

I’m a proud redhead

I’m bendy…

I have a three-pack

I get very, very, very wet

5. Would you like to fondle the person next to you?

Of course! I do love to fondle, especially ass… yes I’m an ass girl…

Bonus: Penis or vagina? Why?

Penis, cause nothing beats having it inside you… And a penis is sooo much easier then a vagina (at least with having one)

If you would like to see more of TMI Tuesday and see what other people have answered, just go over to the blog and find out!

Adult dating

Adult dating is a tricky thing, especially being a woman you get a lot of attention but you have to go through a lot of messages and profiles to find the decent guys and girls. I’ve been on several different sites and no matter what, you always get messages from weird guys (yes it’s mostly guys somehow).

I’ve experimented with mentioning that I’m a sex blogger and even telling in the first line that if you’re looking for an easy hook up that they should move on. And yes they still try. Just because I like to have sex with other people than my own boyfriend, doesn’t mean I’m not picky. Guys (again, yes it’s pretty much always the guys)  sending a one or two sentence message also doesn’t do it. Especially if you haven’t even taken the time to write a decent profile it’s not likely you’ll get a response. Even worse if they can’t manage to read my whole profile and the message clearly shows that they haven’t, I’m not likely to respond. Personally I don’t even know how they can think that might even work. Top tip: read a profile before you send a copy paste message to somebody 😉

I’ve found it to be easier to find people to have fun with online but it’s more tricky to find somebody who will match with you and doesn’t turn out to be creepy. That’s why I make sure I’ve talked to the person a whole lot more than just the general dirty talk. Anybody can do dirty talk typing, the real question is if they can live up to it. That’s why I generally talk a lot first and get to know the other person before actually agreeing to meet.

When it comes to meeting somebody I feel comfortable with talking to, I have no problem at all with that. I’m a bit chicken when it comes to asking people in person and rather be approached then do the approaching. Yes I know, I’m a bit shy when it comes to that stage. My name is Rose, I’m a sex blogger and I have trouble getting laid. Yes really. I wish I could be more straightforward, like the girl who asked me if I wanted to go home with her right away. I’m more cautious and rational usually but I do try. In a swingers club it’s easier though thanks to knowing everybody is there for the same reason 😉

Adult dating, is just like normal dating. You have to sift through a lot of weird messages and a lot of guys that aren’t worth any time. But eventually you will find some lovely people, just trust your instincts and be honest. Honesty I find very important, if a date says one thing and you find out it’s not true. Not a good impression at all. Personally I don’t understand why people would lie because it always comes out in the end. Especially big things like having a partner already and cheating. Trust me a girl always knows when you’re trying to trick her into thinking you’re single. And just like with normal dating you can get disappointed and even get your heart broken if you’re not careful.

When it comes to sites for adult dating, there are a lot of different sites. There are sites leading to others that even have information about adult dating and tips like XXX Sex Guides but more concrete there’s also ones like Fling (casual sex) ,Collar me (all bdsm) Alt (more bdsm and fetish)  SDC (for swingers) and okcupid (more mainstream but I like the features)  that can be used and I’m sure there’s plenty more out there. It also depends on what country you are in of course.

Just for fun, I’ll share some messages with you all.

‘Hmm you wanna know what my specialitis are about sex’

Yeah…no…

‘hello what’s it like in Amsterdam? Cuz am away to go there few months time’

Do I look like a information booth?

‘Hi, how you doing? Can we chat? ‘

Just as short: No.

‘Let’s sneak into the zoo after dark and steal the koala bears. ‘

I have got to admit, I gave him points for originality. But still weird…

‘Hi, let me start by saying I’m not going to ask for nudes or anything. Just want some tips on how to seduce women, since you’re an expert :3 ‘

Okay… I never said I’m an expert on seducing women. Being bisexual doesn’t mean I’m that of an expert on women all of a sudden.

‘well saw your profile and was gonna write a message to you 🙂 then searched your username on google.. found your blogs… checked photos carefully… enjoyed them 🙂 went to shower… and now i am your follower on twitter ! keep up the good work 😉 ‘

I’m flattered but why exactly are you telling me this?

‘Hello heavenly blessed beauty whose beauty is as timeless as those of the great pyramids. I would do battle with a group of hippopotamus with nothing more than a hand carved shank from a saudi arabian oil sheik, jump into a pirahna infested river with two rhinoceros beetles gnawing my testicles, and dive to the depths of the challenger deep with nothing but sarah jessica parkers queef’s as my air supply just to sit next to the guy who sat next to you on the bus in high school. ‘

Yes this is a real message I got and I was just as baffled and confused…. makes you wonder what the guy took…

Meeting someone fun online can be tricky, depending on what you are looking for. So far the most fun people I have met through events and Twitter. I do love meeting new people and with the right atmosphere at events there’s plenty of opportunity to meet new people. So what are you waiting for? 😉

Sinful Sunday: Love bites

This Sinful Sunday is all about Love Bites, I got these from the lovely Miss Serene and I must say that I quite like them.
They look like normal wooly gloves ( normal vampire gloves also come in leather and by the looks of those they are equally fun) so you can even wear them outdoors 😉
So far I’ve only tried them on myself but I can imagine it being more fun if somebody else were to use them on you. They feel quite nice on your skin and if you haven’t tried it already, you certainly should!
Because the pins aren’t just on the fingers but also on the palm you can get yourself in a whole lot of trouble with them 😉

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Photography basics

The inspiration for this blog post came from a conversation I had on twitter. It would seem that there are enough people who love to make pictures and would love to learn, but don’t know how.
So I have good news for those who wish to learn a little bit more about how to make the photos that you want.
In this post I will be sharing a few basics with you, that I learned and that apply to everybody, no matter what camera you have.

Myself, I got a small digital camera and a big digital SLR with both different features, functions and settings but I use both to make pictures for my blog.
The small camera is handy for spontaneous pictures and I can use it with my small tripod anywhere I want to.
The big camera I use a lot with close ups, because that way I don’t have to use the timer and can have more control about what I want to that way.

Background
The background in a picture is very important and can set the mood of your photo. For instance if you want a more mysterious picture, you can use a dark background, like this:

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A typical point and hope for the best picture with my SLR

If you look at the picture, you see that the dark background enhances the lightness of the skin. Extra emphasizing is the black and white, what I like to use a lot and it is the only filter I use. Other filters look tempting to experiment with but I only stick to black and white.

Focus

If your you got a better camera you can also set the depth of field, so you got the area what you want to draw attention to is in focus (or not, depending on what you want to do) Here’s an example so you can see the different depths of fields.

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Also a point and hope for the best picture with my SLR

You can see the candle in front being fuzzy, the first nipple sharp and behind that the second nipple fuzzy again. Because you can still recognize what’s behind and in front of the focus field, it emphasizes the first nipple.

Composition
The way that you frame whatever you want to capture, is also important. You can also do this afterwards when cropping the image but you can also think ahead and think about how you want it before you make your picture.

The key with making in a picture powerful and interesting is the Golden Ratio. Using this, the key focus of your picture, should be at 2/3rd of the picture. Ideally the most interesting point of your picture would be 2/3rd of 2/3rd. Like in this picture below.

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A put the SLR on a chair and hope for the best picture with timer

The orientation of the photograph also helps with showing your best assets 😉 Not to mention the splash of color to draw you in even more. Using composition you can let people look where you want them to look, at what you want to show off.

Shapes

This top tip is thanks to the lovely Mario from Someone Once Told Me who did a session at Eroticon 2013
When he mentioned that he loved shapes and that they are everywhere! Just looking out the window you can spot a lot of different shapes like the rectangular bricks s in this picture. How many shapes do you spot?

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Picture made by Urbanvox and his SLR

Shapes can make a picture more interesting to look at or really draw an image together. With this picture it really makes it a whole. To see the rectangles from the bricks with the natural, more flowing round body shapes.

I hope you all liked me sharing some basics and all I can say further is just practice a lot and get to know your camera. I even make the best and funkiest pictures just pointing my camera and not knowing where I’m aiming (yes I do that a lot)
Usually I make pictures on my own but having somebody else to help is not only more handy, but also more fun! So get experimenting and have some fun with it 😉