Had you told me a few years ago I’d be starting this blog I’d have probably laughed uncomfortably. I was very reserved and also still kind of believing in monogamy and such. This changed of course when I met my girlfriend who herself was already far more sexually open than me.
Heck our first time was in the back of a car and many other locations followed. Before her I was sort of active in online chatrooms and certain sites. I’m a very cerebral person so chatting sexily is a major turn on for me. And I’m also crazy curious. We quickly discovered we both frequented such sites and so we started visiting them together.
She did express her desire for being with another couple and both forms of threesomes. At the time I was still a bit uncomfortable with the idea of another man being involved. (hypocrit that I was I didn’t mind another woman, but never pressed the matter due to fairness)
While we did look for couples with a good connection, which was important to both of us, we never did really hit it off. So instead we tried a swingersclub. While we didn’t do a lot at the time it was very exciting and we did want to do it again. We later went to a sort of convention which also had a swingers cafe where we had fun with each other while others were watching.
After that we did try looking for couples online but it was kind of hard. Meanwhile she was developing an interest in kinky things while I wasn’t all that kinky. She did entertain online contacts with other men, which she was being rather secretive about, but I didn’t want to be the crazy jealous boyfriend. Plus I trusted her fully.
Fast forward to a few months ago. She went to norway for a year for a work experience thing. Which meant a lot of chatting, skyping and swapping out naughty pictures. At some point I asked for more pictures and she suddenly shared pictures from locations I recognized, but pictures I had never seen before. So I wondered where they came from. She explained they were for her twitter and blog, a special twitter and blog I had never seen or heard of.
She was very hesitant to share these with me. She was afraid I might not like what I find. But by then I too curious and I also knew I loved her and she me. What I discovered that she was actually a lot more sexual than I even imagined. And the blog involved stories of experiences she had. Some of which she had while dating me.
My first reaction was somewhat shocked. But that was only very short lived as I started reading the blog. Reading her blog quickly gave me the most massive hardon ever. As it turns out I wasn’t angry at her having done things while we were dating. The stories turned me on like crazy.
From there I became more accepting of her outings because the only reason I wasn’t for it were my own insecurities. But finding out it turned me on and I didn’t have to worry about her running off made me more open. So I gradually allowed her more liberties provided she tell me all about it as it really turned me.
I also started exploring the world she was in a bit more. Discovering all kinds of interesting things. It made me want to explore my own sexuality. And she did give me all the freedom I want, though as of this writing I haven’t used that yet, there does need to be some connection.
So now I find myself thinking about sex a lot as well, about things I like and dislike and what I would like to try. And thus the idea to start blogging about it was born. Besides that I might write the occasional fictional erotica.
And that concludes a brief history as to why I started this blog.
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