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His surprise

It started with just an idea in my head. Something to surprise him with for. Something so deep in the darkest, perverted corner of his mind, that he wouldn’t speak of it. I found out by accident browsing on our laptop. The browser history had remembered something that didn’t look familiar to me so I went and see what it was. It was a porn site. More specifically, it was a cuckold porn site. I was fascinated and slowly the idea grew on me to surprise my husband with another woman with a strap on.

Doing some browsing online, I realized that it would be a lot less hassle to not go and find someone through ‘date’ sites and to just hire a professional. I stumbled across and had a browse there. I decided on a gorgeous looking woman called Eve. Nervously I contacted the agency and arranged a date for her to come to our house. The day before the date, I went to a sextoy shop to get some supplies. When I told the shop assistant of what I needed, she helped me pick out all the necessities. Including restraints to make sure he wouldn’t move. It may be his fantasy but I still want my fun for my own. I didn’t pick another woman for him, but for me. I have experimented with women in the past but to only think about what might happen now, made me quite excited.

I arranged Eve to arrive before my husband would, to make sure there will be enough time to tell her about the plan and to see if she appealed to my woman loving side. I put the toys out in the bedroom and made sure everything was ready when I heard the doorbell ring. I opened the door and invited her in. She looked just as beautiful as her pictures and I was glad that I chose her. I explained my plans to her and how I wanted to do this. I took her to the bedroom and showed her the set up I made. I had put a chair next to the bed where I would tie him up so he would be agonizing close and be able to see everything. Seeing I was a bit nervous, she came closer and kissed me. Her lips were soft and delicious to kiss. when I heard the car pull up on the driveway I broke off the kiss and grabbed the blindfold. Going downstairs my heart raced as my husband came in.

‘Hi honey, how was your day?’ I asked.

‘Alright, glad to be home though.’

‘Come here, I have a surprise for you. ‘

This caught his attention and he said;’what kind of surprise? ‘

‘Wouldn’t be a surprise if I said it now would it?’

I revealed the blindfold and immediately covered his eyes with it.

‘What are you up to with this?’

‘You’ll see,’ I said as I guided him upstairs. Coming to the bedroom Eve was laying on the bed in her lingerie and it made me lust after her even more.

‘Okay you can sit down on the chair now’ I said as he carefully sat down. I took his arms and in a quick movement, secured them in the restraints. Before he could protest I also secured a gag in his mouth. Lastly I made sure his legs where secured to the chair as well and sat on the bed in front of him.

‘Now you are ready for your surprise, I’m sure you will enjoy this,’ I said as I removed his blindfold. He blinked a few times and saw Eve behind me on the bed. Eve came up behind me and kissed my neck as she slid her hand between my legs. I saw his eyes grow bigger as he fully realized what was going on and he mumbled into his gag.

She massaged my clit through my clothing and I moaned as she bit down in my neck gently. I could see his penis getting rock hard in his pants and Eve had noticed as well.

“Seems he is enjoying himself just as much.”

“Not as much as I will enjoy myself,” I said and took of my clothes as Eve stepped into the strap-on harness. With the harness and cock secured to her, she pushed me down on the bed on my back. She started teasing my breasts with her lips as she pushed a finger in my dripping vagina. I moaned loudly and couldn’t wait for more.

To be continued..


I identify as a kinkster as it’s one of the wider terms out there without pinning you down. Technically I’m a switch yes but there is much more to it. At the moment I’m mostly dominant because that side is more appealing to me currently so I do nothing with my submissive side. You could say that I enjoy being a female dominant but again so much more to it. The way I usually describe myself is sweet, with a sadistic side. I have heard the phrase ‘but you’re so innocent and sweet looking’ plenty of times. Just because I’m a dominant woman, doesn’t automatically mean I’m a bitch. Sure, I can be one but I’m not one all the time. I’m even described as too sweet sometimes. So it can come as quite a shock if someone finds out about my kinky side. And yes their faces are quite amusing to watch when they do.

Being a dominant woman, I have played with the thought of becoming a professional dominant. It definitely something that appeals to me and I would be happy to explore. It would be an interesting thing to do and certainly something I would enjoy. But just like other things it would be a lot of work. I’m not shy of hard work but taking a step in a different direction can be scary sometimes.

Something I do detest though is all the instadommes (boom, suddenly you’re the perfect dominant) and scammers that are out there and think that just because they are bitchy, they are dominant and can demand gifts and money. These people don’t even care about any kind of kink and are just interested in taking your money and moving on to the next victim. You won’t get anything in return apart from regret.

I have met many submissive men in chat rooms but I’ve found that the more grounded and ‘normal’ they are, the better. It is better to spend your money on a professional, whether it be an escort or dominant, than waste it on someone you don’t even get anything but bitchyness back from. You may be submissive but that doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to have standards.

Being a professional is called professional for a reason, because it’s something you do for a living and you put in a lot of hard work. Besides the professionals there are the lifestyle financial dominants, they are out there yes. So no, not every non professional financial dominant is someone that is after your money. Even though I can and can’t understand certain aspects of financial domination and why people do it, I accept that it is there. But if I would do it, it is not the most important thing there is. Making sure the submissive is taken care of would be my first priority. Sure, it’s great to get gifts, but I’m not going to ask for them. Unless I have a submissive who actually is into financial domination of any kind. For instance I find a blackmail scenario quite interesting because that way you can push someones limits just a little further to see where it might lead.

The people posing as financial dominants are usually not even familiar with the more basic things within bdsm. For instance they might think financial domination is about money but it’s all about power. Many people crave that power exchange both on the dominant and on the submissive side, or even from both sides. I personally like the control I can have over a person and it’s fun to play with that. Making a submissive think one thing and do something they totally didn’t see coming is one of my favorite things. Because the faces and sounds are the best!

The more I explore, the more I enjoy my dominant side and embrace it. I can be quite shy still though around vanilla people. Having embraced kink, I’m still far from being a magnificent dominant but I always keep exploring and discovering new things about me. And this is a wonderful journey to make. There are always new kinks to explore and new people to try figure out. So who knows what will happen, I will enjoy the journey and see where it will take me.

Sex toys and Orgasms

Yes, let’s talk about sex toys and orgasms. They belong together quite closely because one leads to another and if you have a toy that isn’t right for you, might not lead to the other.

There still are a lot of people that aren’t comfortable with having sex toys around and that’s not only men, there are a lot of women as well. And that is a real shame because there are plenty of women with trouble reaching an orgasm. Including me, yes me! Sex toys are not scary at all and if introduced properly they can really make it more fun for you (and your partner.) Don’t feel shy to try a toy for yourself, or with your partner. Sometimes masturbating in front of a partner or masturbating together can be quite fun with or without a toy.

When it comes to orgasms, everyone is different. Just going into orgasms for women, (because I’m sure it’s different for men even though things might overlap) some come very easily, others only from clitoral stimulation, some don’t come at all. Me for instance, I don’t come during sex. I only come when I’m masturbating, usually by myself. (you can see how here)  Women also get off on different things. I need a combination of friction, vibration and pressure to get my orgasm and I must say that doesn’t make it easy but it’s possible. And for that I am very glad. Yes it can be frustrating at times for me but I know that at least I can come if I put the effort in.

With choosing a sex toy, knowing what you like is very important.

For instance I have an eroscillator, great thing but does not work for me. You can’t really press it into you for friction or anything so for me it’s not a good toy. So yes if I gave that some more thought before I bought it, I could have saved a lot of money.

If you are not sure what you like, you can always ask your other half to help decide with what to get. My first ever sex toy that worked for me as well, was given to me by my boyfriend. By giving me the Layaspot he made orgasming so much easier for me (and less awkward for sure.)

A few questions you can ask yourself with searching a toy can be:

– Do I come from penetration alone?

– Do I only come with clitoral stimulation? ( like I have, I do not like anything inserted usually unless it’s the real deal)

– Do I need a combination of things? (If yes, the combination gives you a general idea what kind of toys you might like)

– Am I allergic to anything? If so pay good attention to what material toys are made from. Even if you are not allergic pay attention to the materials, sadly there are quite a lot unsafe materials out there that might cause problems. So always make sure you clean toys before and after use.

Doing some research on sex toys  before buying them can be very beneficial. Especially if you have a certain combination of things or only one thing you need, go look into things that might work. And if you can, and have a partner or a friend who is willing to let you try something, go for it I would say. Of course only if the toy can be properly cleaned and sanitized, otherwise I wouldn’t do that.

Sadly as with most things, you can’t be 100% certain a toy might be good for you. There are plenty of sex toy reviewers out there though that will give you a pretty good image of what a toy is all about and if it’s worth getting it for you.

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