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Kink of the week: Anal!

So, anal sex. Let’s talk about that. For me, anal is something that I don’t mind (secretly love sometimes even, shhhh) but it can be a hassle sometimes. For it to be comfortable it needs some stretching up and warming up but I can imagine that’s the case for most people. But it’s hot when it’s done right. For instance when your play partner has you insert a plug in you and proceeds to fuck you while you have it in. As someone with a double penetration fantasy that she still wants to experience at least once, that is hot as fuck.

Very hot as fuck actually, especially with some kink and restraints involved. Or just two guys that hold you in to place as they…. But I digress. Ahum, let’s see where was I?

Ah yes anal, sometimes I also include it with masturbating but usually only when I have a play partner who also loves it that I do that. Sometimes even with a dildo along with it. Okay I see a pattern here now. With my masturbating, I usually read my porn and anal often is also a part of it. I’m a fan of non-consent writing and for me it can also be something that is more degrading. For me that’s more something in the category of a fucktoy with all holes being used kind of thing.

But as a switch and owner of a strapon harnass and a bigass dildo that somehow ended up being called Henk, I also have an interest for pegging. Not as much as I used to anymore but it’s still there… somewhere. Currently I’m just more greedy and want to experience things myself while being the willing subject. But I do love walking around with Henk. And get into cockfights or just whooosh it around. Yes, I definitely have cock envy there and to take someone with a cock feels like a very powerful thing to do. And it is quite pleasing. And also making me horny as fuck in general. First time I pegged someone I forgot to wear panties and had my juices halfway down my leg. Yeah I was just as surprised.

So yes, I do like it, don’t mind it but it’s also perfectly okay to not have it included in sex or masturbation.

 

Sinful Sunday: Wax

Yes! It’s been a while, I know, I know. But here I am yet again with a post for you lovelies. Lately I’ve been more actively busy with more exploring and experimenting and I can tell you, it has been quite fun. I’ve been exploring my submissive slutty side with a play partner and I am certainly enjoying it. But I digress. At a party I tried out wax play for the first time! Definitely was fun and I am very glad I was bold enough to just ask if I could try it as well.

 

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Sinful Sunday

TMI: Big? Tight?

1. Can a penis be too big?

Eventually you’ll reach a point of a penis being too big because the human body can only stretch so far. Had a case of wow that was a little wider than I expected but otherwise I haven’t made the acquaintance yet of one that is too big. And yes I do love them big.

2. Can a vagina be too tight?

Probably yes. I know I can be tight but add a waterfall of moist to that and tight isn’t a problem?

3. Does playing with fake tits give you the same satisfaction and response as fondling real breasts?

So far my only fake tit experience goes to tit stress balls and I suppose it’s not the same. I still prefer fondling butts (hehe) and penises over breasts though, no matter if they’re real or not.

4. Fill in the blank: I prefer ____ over having sex.

I definitely prefer snuggles and cuddling over having sex. I can be lazy sometimes so cuddling works just fine to be close to someone.

5. If a stranger offered you 30 USD to lick your boots or shoes, while you are wearing them, would you accept? If no, how much money would it take for you to accept the offer?

That would totally depend on the situation I’m in and whether the person offering me money looks rich or not. If someone would offer me it on the spot I’ll probably say yes, random person on the internet yeah no. Worst case scenario: my boots/shoes get a good clean and can be wiped afterwards and I have 30 USD. Definitely don’t see the harm in that one.

If you would like to see more of TMI Tuesday and see what other people have answered, just go over to the TMI blog and find out!

Review: The Ruby Glow

Thanks to the lovely people of TheRocksOff and thanks to the lovely Tabitha Rayne, I was able to review the Ruby Glow.

At Eroticon I already had a quick peek at the Ruby Glow and it had made me quite curious about it. Because for me, clitoral stimulation is the way to go for orgasms. So this definitely seemed like the toy to try out. I’m not the easiest when it comes to orgasms so one more potential way seemed like a good idea.

So taking it out of the box, I immediately tried it on and tried pushing buttons at random. There are two buttons on there, one for every separate motor that is in there. Of course just randomly pushing buttons, you might end up making music with the Ruby Glow. It can do a march quite handsomely. So yes the Ruby Glow definitely has rhythm. So with the two separate motors, you can decide what you want while sitting on it.

First step: Trying to figure out how to sit on it. Because you know, for science, I of course tried it the way it isn’t intended for as well. As well with and without a pillow under it. And of course with a hard chair and a soft one. Because, of course,  I need to test it properly under all circumstances. You know… for science! Also still works as a regular toy laying down or standing up, it’s just more of a hassle because you have to hold it. And in my opinion, it’s better with a hard surface underneath you. That way, if you get the right position and spot, it’s not instantly gone if you move.

Playing with the various settings, and with lots of shifting back and forth on it. It definitely works for me in terms of it actually is arousing and hitting the right spots. It does take some practice and some trying out with all the different settings what works for you. Personally I found the clitoris stimulation part a bit hard and I couldn’t find a good spot for it to work for me. The other part I found quite nice and stimulating. Especially just sitting with that part between my legs did the trick for getting enough stimuli.

A few of the patterns cracked me up though, one sounds exactly like your phone going off while on silent with vibration on. I managed to get a tango out of it. Almost got something like it sounding like it’s saying help. So yes, it has some interesting features and rhythms to work with, both along with a continuous vibration and a steady flow of vibrations.

The controls are quite easy to handle with only two buttons. You just have to keep clicking to rotate the pattern and if you want to shut it off, just press and hold the button for a bit. A good feature is that, because of the two separate motors, you can also just only use one of them.

The vibration was also more intense and harder than I would expect and certainly sufficient for proper stimulation. The material was also softer and more smooth than I expected. It does have a funny smell when it comes out of the box, but that’s not uncommon with new toys.

I personally prefer using clitoral toys with at least one layer of clothing, because it can get quite intense and sensitive with direct contact. The vibrations of the Ruby Glow are strong enough to make up for that extra layer and it feels quite nice as well. Because of the smoothness, you can easily slide back and forth on it while not getting friction.

For me, it didn’t do the trick though. It was nice but for me the clitoral part was too rigid and hard. I do like that the fact you have to sit on it and if you do, it’s quite comfortable. And yes obviously, part of this review is written while actually sitting on it. It does make a nice distraction or motivator. It’s all good vibrations!

So in short:

  • Good, good vibrations! The two separate motors are easy to match.
  • Body safe silicone, easy to clean and splash safe.
  • Well designed and long battery life (takes two AAA batteries)
  • Sitting on it and hitting the right place takes some practice
  • Some movements may feel uncomfortable and hard while sitting on it if you shift or flinch a little when it hits the right spot.

Sinful Sunday: Booty

Since I didn’t want to deprive my favorite pervs of my booty and I do like to share, so time for some Sinful Sunday! Not to worry, I’m working on more stuff and yes I am planning on making more photo’s. Even some more writing is being worked on 😉

 

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Sinful Sunday

Kink of the week: High Heels

I love heels. Yes I said it. I love them. I do not love the way some of them hurt my feet though. Of course there are different ones that do or do not make my feet hurt quickly but eventually I end up walking too much on them and it will be a relief to take them off. So yes it takes some planning on my behalf if I know I am going to be walking a lot, I’ll bring a pair of flats. And sometimes my impulsivity gets me end up with glass in my foot because I had to take them off and I’ll just walk home barefoot.

But let’s discuss the more obvious one for me. Being tall and wearing heels. Yes, I know I am tall with my 6’1/1.85 and yes I will be even taller. My porn heels will make me tower over people and yes it does make me feel too tall sometimes. But fuck, why shouldn’t I wear heels just because I am already tall? When I’m wearing heels I do get it asked a lot. Why do you wear heels when you obviously are tall as fuck? I generally tend to answer with; why not?
And yes they usually answer with because you are already tall. Which really is a bullshit way of saying ‘I already envy your height so you can’t artificially alter it any more to he even taller than I am’.

It might not been said but the message sometimes is quite clear. And to be honest, I don’t give a fuck about what others might think, and so should you. No matter what gender you identify as, no matter how you look, no matter how tall you are, if you love wearing heels, just wear them!

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